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HOW TO USE THIS MANUAL

1.            Read through the manual at least once (2-3 times is preferable).

Don’t try to learn or memorise anything on your first readings. Your brain will automatically pick up an overview of the structure and main content.

Your first impression of the material is likely to be that most of it is just common sense. You may be surprised that there is no mention of famous theories e.g.:

      Theory X / theory Y

      Maslow’s hierarchy of needs

      Herzberg’s motivation/hygiene theory

      Hawthorne effects

      Belbin’s team types, etc.

There are good reasons for leaving out the theory.

Firstly, in order to become an effective manager based on an understanding of the theories would require more time and space than is available for this self-teach manual.

Secondly, and more importantly, most of the theories are difficult to apply in real situations. Real-life people-management is about the practical knowledge and skills that can be applied to steer a potentially volatile situation towards a satisfactory outcome. It is all about face to face behaviour.

Real people-management is about adapting your behaviour in such a way that it generates the right behaviour on the part of the person being managed

The best guide for enabling you to give out the appropriate behaviour when operating under stressful circumstances is common sense.

That is why you will get the feeling that you already know most of the facts presented in this course. That is the point. The purpose of this course is to teach you strategies for ensuring that you apply your innate good sense whatever the pressures or distractions.

2.            Tackle the elements one at a time.

The first section contains a set of information elements. These are designed to remind you of what you probably already know about managing people successfully.

These elements are:

      Seven things you need to remember about people

      Specific people-handling skills

      Accountability

      The importance of taking notes

These elements are presented in small easily-digested chunks. How many chunks you can process in one go is up to you. For most people, learning, retention and application, , works best on the “little and often” principle.

Taking one or two chunks at a time is probably better than trying to cram it all in at once. After all, how long have you needed to become a more effective people-manager? A few more days is not going to make matters any worse, and a leisurely approach could entrench your skills far more effectively than the “binge” approach.

Particularly if you are studying this course on your own you presumably want to surprise your peers and managers with your newly acquired skills in behaving as an effective people-manager. Make sure that you are reasonably confident and secure in your understanding of the information before you progress. There are exercises and suggestions associated with the information elements to help you master this material.

You will need to be familiar with the information modules before progressing to the application modules.

The main section of the course consists of a series of classic people-management situations. In these elements you are provided with an easily learned set of steps designed to take you to a satisfactory outcome in the shortest possible time.

These are:

      Delegation

      Progress review

      Performance management

      Behaviour management

      Follow up

      Administering praise

      Administering discipline (2 stages)

      Responding to unforeseen events/complaints

      Introducing change

The most important thing about the sets of steps is that they work most effectively when you do them in the right order. You may reach a conclusion if you skip a step or change the order, but the most likely result will be that you will find yourself taking too much time or going round in circles.

You will find these elements are quite similar in structure. This is designed to aid your learning, so that you can more easily acquire the habit of behaving in the most effective way. As you progress through this course you will find that quite small variations in procedure, behaviour and phraseology can have a significant impact on the outcome. As you work through the material be aware of the small but significant differences.

The steps for each type of interaction are generic. The specific content of each interaction that you will have in real life is unique. This means that there is an infinite number of illustrative examples that could be used to explain how the interactions work. This in turn means that any specific examples chosen stand a good chance of being outside the direct experience of the reader.

Although some real life examples are included in the text to illustrate certain points, you will find it easier to grasp the rationale of the process by fitting your own experience and problems to the generic form of the steps.

 You will need to plan and rehearse situations from your own environment. While this course can provide you with the steps needed to conduct the interaction, only you can fill in the detail needed for real life application. There are worksheets provided to help you construct and evaluate your own practice sessions. (These are under construction and will be available shortly)

3.            Play with the material

Once you have worked through the material you will know what kind of verbal behaviour works most effectively to achieve your goals. It is good fun, and helps reinforce your learning, if you play with the material (not in a real-life situation, obviously) and see if you can invent ways of achieving the opposite of what you want.

For example, you want the person that you are managing to be motivated to achieve what you want them to do. You will have learned what kinds of words and behaviour will achieve this. What kinds of words and behaviour would you use to make someone feel unmotivated? If you are studying this course with colleagues you could compete to generate the worst possible examples of management behaviour. The spooky thing is that you soon realise that the worst examples of people-management behaviour you can think of are nowhere near as bad as the examples you can draw from real life.

Once you can spot bad management practice, and say why it’s bad, you’ve understood good management.

As you work through the modules you may also notice that the structure of many of the interactions can be easily adapted to other contexts. The techniques and skills are not solely for use in a hierarchical management structure, where authority is derived from position. The techniques work equally well in a matrix management structure where authority can sometimes be a little blurred.

The techniques are also useful to be able for managing colleagues, your own manager, customers and suppliers. These techniques will enable you to manage all those relationships without having to rely on the authority of your position.

Similarly, in a domestic or personal context you can use the techniques to influence friends and relatives. But do beware; a personal relationship is different from a work relationship. The more you use management techniques within a personal relationship, the less personal and more work-like it becomes.

Have fun.

 
 
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Steve Smethurst - Reflex Training  
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